FINDING YOUR IDENTITY: A JOURNEY
A hilariously messy, soul-deep quest to remember who you were—before the world told you who to be.
BOOK OVERVIEW
Finding Your Identity: A Journey by Bob Singh is a deeply personal and whimsically profound story about three strangers—Aman, Maya, and Jai—who are invited to an enigmatic retreat called The Wayhouse. Each of them receives a mysterious card in the mail: "Come as you are. Leave who you were." The story unfolds as they disconnect from phones, roles, and societal masks, confronting their buried identities in a place where mirrors are forbidden, names are erased, and emotional armor dissolves. Told with humor, heart, and poetic insight, this novel combines narrative storytelling with journal prompts and quirky observations about identity, burnout, and emotional reassembly. It's not a guide to self-help—it’s a mirror, an invitation, and a quiet revolution for anyone who’s ever whispered, “Who even am I anymore?” Ideal for young adults, professionals, and seekers of all kinds, the book blends spiritual satire, personal development, and relatable millennial exhaustion into a transformative, hilarious journey of self-reclamation.
CHAPTER 01
The universe doesn't knock. It whispers—and if you don’t listen, it leaves you a note.
Three people—Aman, Maya, and Jai—each receive a mysterious envelope with no return address, just their name. Inside is an invitation:
You are invited to The Wayhouse.
30 days. No phones. No clocks. No masks.
Come as you are. Leave who you were.
If your soul is tired… we’ve been expecting you.
All three are drowning in invisible struggles:
Aman, a 43-year-old "consulting human" who’s buffering through life. Maya, a 20-year-old pre-med student pretending her burnout is ambition. Jai, a 15-year-old introvert hiding in sketchbooks and silence.
They don’t know each other. But each answers the invitation—not because they’re brave, but because they’re done pretending.
In a world of curated identities and digital noise,
The Wayhouse
promises raw space for rediscovery. No roles. No expectations. Just the terrifying—and liberating—question:
Who are you when no one’s watching?
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Bob Singh is still becoming. He's been the fixer, the quiet one, the spreadsheet powered people pleaser. He wrote Finding Your Identity: A Journey, not from a mountain top, but in the messy middle. He believes healing should be funny, naps be sacred, and boundaries be given applause. Bob teaches, speaks, and writes about becoming with honesty, humor, and the occasional GOAT metaphor. He lives in California, still forgets his coffee and is still becoming. And yes, he named a plant Carl. Obviously.
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